The Art of Getting Her to Orgasm

Getting your woman to climb the heights of passion and reach the ultimate release of an orgasm, can be the greatest gift you give her. With a little know-how, and possibly a More »

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10 Interesting Sex Facts!

We all engage in it, be it in a straight, gay, or trans relationship.  Even if we’re all by our lonesome, we still find a way to get our freak on.  So More »


#CosmoBlogAwards – Please Take a Few Minutes to Vote!

So … 30 Dates is on the Shortlist for the Cosmo Awards! We're up against six other blogs for Best Sex & Relationships Blog 2014. To start off, it's a really great honour. Thousands of people enter the #CosmoBlogAwards each year, so just to be named on the Shortlist is a real achievement. Thank you to everyone who took time to nominate the blog. 30 Dates was never set up to win prizes – in fact the blog itself was never even planned! I got messed around by a guy I met online, and rather than mope around Read More

The Woman Who Posted Her Husband’s ‘Sex Spreadsheet’ Online Did Men Everywhere A Favour

A woman has posted a spreadsheet on Reddit sent to her by her husband detailing her excuses for rejecting him for sex. Compiled over a month, the excuses range from her prioritizing a Friends re-run over marital intimacy, to consistent references to her feeling too “gross” “sweaty” and “drunk” to make love. Sounds like a real catch. The email was sent as the husband set off on a ten-day business trip. He then cut contact with her, causing her to grow incensed and post these most intimate details of their (lack of) a sex life online. Horrifyingly, both the husband and wife are only Read More

Clown Game vs Good Man Game

In the past I gave advice on what type of game you should run based on your geographical location. Western game, which I liken to clown game, is based on entertaining and exciting the girl while Eastern game is more about showing that you're a good man and possible provider. A minor but noticeable trend is that a growing percentage of girls in more prosperous Central and Eastern European countries are shifting to wanting a man with clown attributes. How do you know which game to start with no matter where you are? Allow me to present some guidelines. Start with Read More

Taking the ego out of sex advice

Why do adults so often assume that they know everything about sex when most people have never even read a sex manual? Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but why do they have to flaunt their own sexual ego? Whatever our own personal views there is absolutely no need to express them in a way that belittles other people. Despite their inexperience, women can be supremely More → The post Taking the ego out of sex advice appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

How To Get More Responses From Online Dating

When it comes to online dating, a lot of my clients say: “It's a numbers game, Marni, and I don't have time to send HUNDREDS of messages all day just to get 2 responses.” And I get it… For men, online dating is more of a struggle because you guys have to put in all the work! In fact, I don't know ANY woman who actually sends out messages… And if you're at the point where you're not getting the results you want…from all the time and effort you're putting in…I think I have something that could help you out… Now if you know me well Read More