Category Archives: Sex Tips

Introducing…365 Valentine

You guys! I'm so excited to tell y'all about my brand new program, 365 Valentine! Basically, I wanted to create something that helps couples grow in their relationships. So many times, I get emails from my readers about failing relationships, and sometimes, I just can't help, as much as I want to. I always think, “this relationship might have been saved if they had just put more work into it before things got ugly.” Because…well…relationships are work! As I mentioned in my last post, it's really, really easy to get into a routine, and suddenly you look up and you have a roommate instead Read More

Becoming a real writer

I always wanted to be a writer. I wrote e.e. cummings quotes on the inside of my closet and on the rubber of my shoes; I spent my high school nights getting high on raspberry mochas and writing bad poetry. I amassed several awards and accolades when I was younger — one time I even attended an award show in New York City — but nothing meant more to me than this Golden Author Award bestowed upon me by my fifth grade teacher. While others received frivolous awards for being class clowns, I got a swanky pen — and this. Read More

Dear Sex Toy Shops: Sex Toys are Gender Neutral. Really!

I started a bit of a rant on Twitter but I really had to go beyond 140 characters. I've seen a lot of great sex toy shops and a lot of crap sex toy shops and often it has nothing to do with their selection – it's how they list their selection. Shops that insist on gendering their wares are honestly baffling to me. I wonder though, do they have any idea that they're alienating a large portion of the sex toy buying crowd? When I come across a store that immediately makes me choose between “For Him”, “For Her” Read More

1 Month Countdown

Everybody told me, “Buying a house is really stressful” but like the other awful club I'm part of, there's the First-Time-Buying-a-House Club and you can't be in it til you're in it and other people can sympathize but they won't understand. I DID NOT UNDERSTAND. NOW I DO. I've employed a few options for stress relief in the last month, and will continue to use those options liberally over the next 30 days. I've had more chest-pain-inducing panic attacks in the last couple weeks than my entire life. While things are not going horribly (our credit is shockingly good), there Read More

The Top 7 SEXIEST Valentine’s Day Ideas Ever!

Valentine's Day is all about romance, but you should inject a healthy dose of sex in there too for a great night. While she'll love the romance, you'll both dig the sex, so here are the very best unique and SEXY Valentine's Day suggestions! 1. Paint Her Body Your woman wants you to spend some time on her this Valentine's Day. What better way to do that than to lick and kiss all over her body, from head to toe? You can do this on your own, or you can gift your partner a delicious tub of edible body paint (or just Read More