Despite ‘good points’, we deal with the consequences of people coming as full packages

Any toxic relationship that I’ve been involved in, has always kept going due to me essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship. While I did spend most of my life feeling wounded by my father’s absence and sporadic periods or even moments spent with him, what I mostly remembered was how I felt around him and the happy times, which of course there were some but I’d admittedly romanticised the hell out of them. I’d selectively remember spending visitations with him and how thrilled I always was to see him but I’d conveniently forget Read More

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