Sexual phenomena, such as arousal and orgasm, rely on explicitly adult themes. Anyone who is restricting these phenomena to a loving relationship[i] with one individual is confusing the sensual and emotional aspects of sexual activity with a lover and the true sexual release of orgasm. One of the difficulties in discussing women's sexuality is the… More → The post Women have sex for emotional (not erotic) reasons appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Earlier this year (I can't believe it's already December), I explained how ‘charming' tends to be a precursor to code red problems. Mistaking charm as being indicative of other characteristics and values is an example of where we fall into the trap of mistaking personality for character, which are not one and the same thing. Personality is about persona and that ultimately comes down to the qualities and characteristics that we want to put across but this may not always be the same as those which represent our true and consistent character. It's about ‘outside' and ‘indoor' behaviour or should Read More

When I was 21, I met an Italian boy of the same age during a stay in Rome. Alfredo cared about how he dressed and would often check his appearance in the mirror. I teased him because I had always been taught that personal vanity was undesirable. Alfredo wore designer sunglasses in the day but one evening as we were going out, I saw that he was wearing More → The post Women who appear to want sexual pleasure appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

It's The Holidays. That oh so awkward time for those who are dating or in a new relationship. Yah, you're dating after 40, but you may still have the same questions you had when you were 20: Do I give him a gift? If, so what? What if I get him something and he doesn't get me anything? Or vice versa? If you're in an exclusive relationship, and have been for some time, I'm assuming you know each other well enough to figure out the gift giving thing without me. But for those of you who have been with your man Read More

What if I told you that falling in love when you are 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? Better than when you are 18 and hot to trot, better than in your 20s when you didn't know yourself from a hot rock or your 30s, when your baby and/or career clocks were ticking so loud you couldn't hear yourself think. This is the best time in your life to find and nurture true love and a great relationship…if you let it be. All of your experiences to this point have been preparation for finding fabulous, grownup, lasting love. Read More