Young men wake up each morning with an erection and have spontaneous erections throughout the day as sex-related thoughts occur to them or simply as a result of seeing someone they find attractive. A boy has no choice but to learn about his sexual arousal and orgasm but, for women, learning how to orgasm is a much more conscious process. “What's pink and hard first thing in More → The post Men's sexual arousal is usually easy appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

There is an amazing lack of tolerance for any discussion of sex that does not involve promoting women as the sexual equals (or superiors) of men. Confident of the full backing of heterosexual society women defend their sexual ego against any information that might explain a gap (between expectation and reality) that they are not… More → The post Men are motivated by intercourse not by orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Pam, an attractive woman in her late forties, told me that she had never had a problem with sexual arousal and orgasm. She started masturbating at the age of eight and after thirty years with the same man, she was still enjoying orgasmic sex as she had done from day one. Women's sexual arousal and orgasm are not automatic for reasons of anatomy if nothing else More → The post Bluffers, fakers and sex surveys appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

After finding no answers from talking to experts, I decided to do my own research by talking to women I came across in everyday life. I wrote about some of my experiences and conclusions and then asked women whether they would be willing to read what I had written. I made it clear that there was no obligation for reviewers to comment. The first point to note More → The post Very few women talk about orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

I have never seen any reason to be embarrassed about my body. I am pretty. I have sensual skin that browns easily and a sexy figure. My parents were always relaxed about nudity. So when I was eighteen, out in the South of France for the summer, I enjoyed going top-less sunbathing. Why have those bikini lines that make your breasts look like icebergs? One day, as I More → The post Why do women not always appreciate displays of male sexuality? appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More