“He just liked me too much” is exactly what my Wing Girl Karla told me after I asked her “he sounds great, why aren't you into him?” Words like Karla's must frustrate you to no end. And I'm sure you're thinking, how is it bad if a guy likes a girl too much?? Isn't that what women want??? Well… No. We don't want you to like us too much, especially in the beginning. We don't want you to focus all your attention on us and forget about the life you had created prior to meeting us. We don't want you to text us throughout the day, call us Read More

Sound familiar? You're agreeable and try not to be or do anything that would give your date an opinion on you. Unsure of who you are and what you want, you rely on others to direct you. You're also afraid of who you truly are being wrong and so you align yourself with ‘authorities' (people with an overinflated sense of their own importance). You typically audition on dates and are more concerned with whether you can get them to like and validate you than you are with whether they're a good fit. You're so busy worrying about how awful it would be if Read More

Research also indicates that for activities not involving men women take longer to orgasm. It is only when having sex with men that women are assumed to match male speeds to orgasm (two minutes on average).[i] Misconception #7: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly assumed that women should orgasm more easily with a… More → The post Our Biological Motivation to Engage in Loving Relationships appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Faking illustrates how women are more concerned about keeping their partners happy or not appearing inadequate than they are about reaching orgasm. Otherwise, they would admit their problem and try to find a solution. Likewise, the debate over which body part needs to be stimulated for female orgasm arises because many women don't know how to orgasm. It is unthinkable that a man would not More → The post Male sexuality involves a high sex drive appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

I approached my adult life in anticipation of a mutually enjoyable sex life. This optimism was fuelled by my love of erotic literature, which I read avidly as a teenager. I enjoyed exploring my sexual fantasies and by the age of seventeen I discovered orgasm through female masturbation. When I had sex for the first time at the age of eighteen with a man I found attractive More → The post Is sexual arousal with a partner really so easy? appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More