Talking with a friend recently who was rather enamoured with a chap who was super ambiguous, a little probing revealed that this guy has a hell of a lot of female friends. A lot. Like when you see those shows about hoarders and then can barely move for all of the stuff piled up around them and they feel super attached to stuff that they're never going to use or appreciate for that matter. This guy collects exes, love interests that he's turned down as well as becoming friends with the exes of his friends. As soon as I heard about this, Read More

As a young woman I never understood why I did not experience sexual arousal as a natural part of my sexual relationship. Much later I decided to talk to experts, assuming that they would have some answers, but I was met only with evasion and silence. The issue of women's sexual arousal and orgasm with a partner is surrounded by mis-information, contrary opinions and, above all, defensiveness More → The post Defending the modern image of female sexuality appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

To state the obvious: men have no organ equivalent to the vagina.[i] Male orgasm rewards men for the reproductive act of ejaculation but there is no biological justification for female orgasm (by any means). So it is much more likely that women's orgasmic ability arises from the anatomy that women have evolved in common with… More → The post The clitoris is the one and only female sex organ appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Men are often blamed, unfairly, for the difficulties that women have with orgasm during sex. For example, it is suggested that, by coming too soon, a man fails to provide enough stimulation. In fact, intercourse is unlikely to provide women with enough clitoral stimulation regardless of how long the man keeps thrusting for. “Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection More → The post Holding men responsible for women's sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Imagine the scenario: a woman, wearing a skirt and no panties, climbs a ladder. A man below enjoys a clear view of her genitals. Imagine now that the genders are reversed: my point is that a woman is unlikely to appreciate the view in the same way that a man does. Of course, someone will always disagree. A man said: “It depends from woman to woman, because if they More → The post Sexual fact versus sexual fantasy appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More