When I was growing up there was never any embarrassment over nudity at home. As divorcees, my parents naturally enjoyed sexual relationships with various partners from time to time. So I have never seen any reason why I should not enjoy the same easy sexual arousal and orgasm apparently promised by erotic fiction. Especially since I have been lucky enough to have: enthusiasm for erotic More → The post Women who want to enjoy sexual pleasure appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Unless she masturbates to orgasm a woman is unlikely to appreciate that orgasm relies on psychological turn-ons. But equally if she has never had an orgasm then she has not explored her own sexual psychology sufficiently to discover what is arousing enough for her to achieve orgasm. It is the ‘whys and wherefores' of sex… More → The post Women's conscious use of sexual fantasy appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Reading the word ‘sexy', a boy of nine screwed up his face in a gesture of disgust and said “Yuck!”. I asked him why and he replied, “Because my parents told me it's disgusting”. Presumably these parents are trying to warn their son away from the temptations of sexual pleasure with its associated immoral behaviour. For women, there has always been acceptance of sex within the context More → The post Sheltering young women from eroticism appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Perhaps it would be simpler if I explained that I am targeting women who masturbate regularly in order to enjoy their own sexual arousal and orgasm. Other women can be totally convinced that sexual arousal is easy and I am very happy for them. But if you do not masturbate then you cannot usefully comment on the experiences of women who do. This is simply a fact More → The post Women who enjoy their own sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Any talk of sexual arousal and orgasm, usually focuses on women since men's sexual arousal and orgasm tend to be a given. It is unthinkable that anyone needs to tell a man how to orgasm. By the time they are teenagers, boys have discovered how to enjoy their own sexual arousal, by looking at images of naked women. Likewise no one tells a boy that to orgasm More → The post True female sexual arousal and orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More