Shere Hite pointed out in 1976 that intercourse does not provide the specific clitoral stimulation that women need to orgasm. So, it is very likely that any woman who claims easy orgasm during intercourse is mistaken. Especially given so few women masturbate and so most do not know what orgasm is. Women's talk of the relationship and loving emotions also indicates a misunderstanding about the nature of More → The post The facts of female sexuality appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Unless they masturbate, most women are unaware that clitoral stimulation is needed for female orgasm. Equally, they are unaware that before genital stimulation can be effective, a person needs to know how to achieve true sexual arousal, which depends on an appreciation of eroticism (images for men; scenarios for women). From puberty onwards men's sexual arousal (as evidenced by an erection) makes regular masturbation inevitable. Since More → The post Women often assume sexual arousal during sex appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Mental turn-ons (both fantasies and fetishes) are abstract concepts and objects. They are not personalised or limited to one individual. So if a man finds the female breast to be an ‘object of desire' then potentially he can be aroused by the breasts of any woman (not just those of his lover). Likewise if a… More → The post Arousal mechanisms are not unique to one lover appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

I'm sure that men will understand the point. We express our sexuality through two basic phenomena: Firstly, enjoying our own PSYCHOLOGICAL arousal by appreciating eroticism; and Secondly, bringing our sexual arousal to orgasm by PHYSICAL stimulation of the genitals. Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography, erotica or the concept of sexual fantasy) and equally shocked by the More → The post Techniques women use to reach orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

When two people are romantically interested in each other, they make it known and it doesn't turn into this long, drawn out, ambiguous rigamarole of wondering whether or not they're interested. It's because one or both parties are being ambiguous why these ‘Whatchamacallit situations' where people aren't sure whether they're “just friends” or whether whatever they've been doing is building towards dating or a relationships are happening in the first place. I'm still waiting for that email/comment/story that goes, “Our situation was super ambiguous and we texted / Facebook messaged for months/years and even slept in the same bed / Read More