My mother never talked to me much about sex but she did tell me to respect a man's sexual ego. She believed that a man's sexual performance relies on a sensitive lover who understands how to play to a man's sexual fantasies. A man hopes for a lover who is enthusiastic about sharing physical intimacy and their intimate time together as lovers. Essentially, sex is no fun if More → The post How men appreciate sex and love appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Men should take comfort from the facts of female sexuality. Most women are unlikely to orgasm from intercourse alone (which provides insufficient clitoral stimulation for orgasm) and yet amazingly few women ask about lack of orgasm. In addition to the obvious personal embarrassment, likely explanations include: Not every woman is interested in orgasm, whether from masturbation or from sex. Relatively few women masturbate and so More → The post How to get laid appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Prostitutes, swingers and bluffers may talk nonchalantly about techniques for pleasuring a man. But women rarely refer to the turn-ons they use to achieve mental arousal with a lover.[i] This issue is vital to understanding why these orgasms are not reproducible by women who masturbate. Misconception #5: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly… More → The post The Quality Aspects of Orgasm Rely on Turn-Ons appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Alex Comfort's book 'The Joy of Sex' (1972) documented primarily positions for intercourse that he and his mistress had found pleasurable as part of their affair. The affair was quite open and the two lovers shared the family home with his wife and son. Don't get me wrong. What Alex Comfort achieved was amazing at the time. His book brought eroticism into respectable marital sex and promoted the More → The post The ideal male lover appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

I have never been a romantic. But recently, I must have gone soft in the head because I now enjoy romantic dramas. I admire the hero's masculinity, his body (admittedly fully clothed) and his portrayal of restrained sex drive. Romance may make a woman amenable to sex but I have not found that it helps with sexual arousal. I need scenarios that involve explicit eroticism for orgasm. More → The post Women who use fantasy for sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More