Many women talk about sexual arousal and orgasm in terms of their relationship. They describe their loving feelings for their partner and explain their sexual arousal in terms of the idea that their partner finds them attractive. Masturbation has no meaning for them because, for such women, sex focuses on the emotional benefits of sharing physical intimacy with their man. It's important not to judge other people's experiences More → The post Sexual arousal from romantic emotions appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

If a woman is open-minded to the idea of exploring eroticism, she should start by reading some erotic literature. I suggest: 'Emmanuelle' by Emmanuelle Arsan: relates the sexual adventures of young women; 'The Happy Hooker' by Xaviera Hollander: describes the author's experiences of pleasuring men as a high-class prostitute and the madam of a brothel; and 'The Story of O' by Pauline Reage: describes More → The post How a woman can learn to masturbate appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Many heterosexuals like the fact that the opposite sex is fundamentally different. Both our sexuality and our emotional responses differ. Men are macho, sometimes a little insensitive, largely disinterested in how they look, social issues or children. Women are pretty, sometimes a little controlling, largely disinterested in getting dirty, doing battle or anything remotely technical. When we generalise we need to be careful not to imply that More → The post How female sexuality differs to male sexuality appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Men may be spontaneously aroused but most men most of the time need to do something to orgasm. So female orgasms cannot ‘just happen'. The emphasis on clitoral stimulation (as if it is the only factor in orgasm) is misleading because it ignores the bigger issue of erotic turn-ons.[i] Stimulation techniques are useless without accompanying… More → The post Women's use of fantasy makes orgasm easier alone appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

When my partner and I decided to get married, his work-mates took him out for a beer to convince him that marriage would mean the end of his sex life. Naturally no woman ever gave me similar advice. I accepted early on that a woman needs to invest in sex for her man's sake. Even so, I was prepared to believe that there was something wrong with me More → The post What sex experts have told me appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More