Why in our liberated times do women still accept ‘putting up with sex' just to avoid being single? I am not judging anyone else's experiences. If other women are content with sex as they find it – I'm very happy for them. But are they really? Or are they simply more accepting? A woman in her early thirties said that she didn't see the point of sex More → The post Long-term sexual relationships appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

I am not so crazy as to approach just any random woman on the subject of sex. I know that most women will be irreversibly offended even at the mention of sex. So I choose women who appear to be fairly liberated and then I approach the subject tangentially. Of the women I have been brave enough to approach, the vast majority have shunned me. It is this More → The post Why do so few women comment on sexual pleasure? appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Male responsiveness gradually declines from adolescence onwards so that few men masturbate regularly by the age of 50. But at any age most men only masturbate if there is no chance of sexual activity with a lover. It is a subtle point but masturbation clearly fulfils quite different functions for men and women. Male masturbation… More → The post Women do not masturbate as a substitute for intercourse appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Slowly attitudes to sexual pleasure are changing and more couples are approaching their sex life with a willingness to try activities other than vaginal intercourse. Basically, if you are struggling with lack of arousal during sex and genuinely want to share your own arousal with a partner then you will need to be prepared to explore activities other than intercourse. Make a special effort once More → The post Some women do explore sexual pleasure appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

On relating our experience to others, we all tend to gloss over details or not own up to difficulties that were perhaps transient. I told Linda, a mother of three in her late forties, that I had never had an orgasm during intercourse. Linda looked at me incredulously and laughed as if I must be ignorant of the most basic sexual facts. Naturally, I died with mortification at the More → The post Women settle for emotional intimacy over sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More