Overall my partner and I have been lucky to have enjoyed exploring eroticism and sex play together. Sure we have had our ups and downs like anyone else. There have also been many positive moments. When I am in a romantic mood, perhaps after a movie or after spending companionable time with my partner, it can be the most exhilarating experience to enjoy passionate kissing while having sex More → The post Making the most of sex play appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

There is a precedent for female masturbation in the animal world. Some female mammals do masturbate but since they do not ejaculate it is difficult to establish that female mammals stimulate themselves to orgasm. Misconception #4: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly assumed that women have a ‘sex drive' to achieve orgasm. Women… More → The post Our Biological Motivation to Achieve Orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

When people share their stories with me and a recurring theme emerges, I ask: If we look at this story a different way, why are you consistently attracted to and involved with partners who pretty much need to spontaneously combust into another person with a different set of values and habits in order to make you happy? Many people believe that if a person loves you, they will change and make you the exception to their rule of behaviour and when this doesn't happen, they personalise it and blame their worth. Why is our happiness and sense of purpose tied up Read More

Much of what is known about female orgasm comes from women's experience of masturbation. Shere Hite's work focused on female masturbation and the clitoris. As a research student in the United States in the early 1970s, Shere (pronounced ‘sherry') Hite circulated a lengthy questionnaire through women's magazines and to passers-by on the street. She asked women to answer direct questions about orgasm anonymously. Only 30% of her More → The post Women's sexual arousal tends to be assumed or overlooked appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there? Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex between women. No More → The post How women enjoy eroticism through sex stories appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More