Given the practical nature of sex (book-learning only gets you so far!) we tend to assume that sex experts have personal experience to support their 'expertise'. Such is our embarrassment over sex that even when a person is advising others about sex we think it improper to ask them to account for their sexual experiences. Yet these experiences contribute towards their authority and support their qualifications. Most More → The post Advice on female orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

The sex industry (prostitution and pornography) is a clear indication that men's desire to enjoy their own sexual arousal and orgasm cannot be satisfied through their relationships with women alone. It's easy for a woman to figure out that men want sex… but they also want to be loved and appreciated through their sexual relationship. Men's sexual arousal is usually easy and immediate. Despite the evidence More → The post Men hope a lover will enhance their sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

The success of the G-spot myth is not solely due to men's ignorance of the female anatomy involved in orgasm. Women who never learn how to stimulate themselves also prefer explanations for female orgasm that rely on male sex drive rather than on their own motivation to achieve orgasm. A defining aspect of women's sexuality[i]… More → The post Women substitute behaviours for responsiveness appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Why do adults so often assume that they know everything about sex when most people have never even read a sex manual? Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but why do they have to flaunt their own sexual ego? Whatever our own personal views there is absolutely no need to express them in a way that belittles other people. Despite their inexperience, women can be supremely More → The post Taking the ego out of sex advice appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Tracy Cox (author of ‘Hot Sex' 1998) tells the story of a woman who welcomes her partner home wearing a sexy nightdress, with champagne by the bed and a pornographic movie ready to play. If she does this regularly over the longer term then I take my hat off to her! Her partner is a very lucky man. More realistically such pampering to a man's sexual fantasies is More → The post How to pleasure a man appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More