Being let off the hook is about being released out of what could be an unpleasant or at the very least difficult situation, or being released out of something that we don't want to do. When we feel that we or someone is on the hook for something, it's fundamentally tied to a sense of obligation, after all, if we didn't feel that we or they were duty bound to do something, we'd opt out without fanfare. The decision to step away wouldn't be laden with such turbulent emotions and even a fear of appearing forgiving. Two scenarios in life are Read More

Rose was a pretty woman even in her late forties. Despite being a mother and housewife she always achieved a classy presentation. Rose told me: “Although I masturbated as a youngster (from 14) it was never to orgasm. My first orgasm was by accident. It happened at 17 with a boyfriend - not during penetrative sex but as a result of my body rubbing against his body. It More → The post Reaching orgasm appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Men's orgasm techniques are consistent regardless of sexual orientation. Once he has responded to a turn-on, a man stimulates his penis whether he engages in masturbation, oral sex or intercourse. Only the anatomy of their lover dictates whether men engage in vaginal or anal intercourse. Women's orgasm techniques are much less consistent. Notably behaviours differ… More → The post Confusion over anatomy only arises with a male lover appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Intimacy with a lover causes me to feel affectionate but I am rarely conscious of any sexual arousal. Whether it's sex with a partner, or masturbation for that matter, I am usually pretty much stone cold in arousal terms at the start. I might conclude that I am frigid if it were not for the fact that I cannot visualise other women I meet approaching sex just More → The post Lack of arousal during sex appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Sexual desire is associated with ‘sex drive'. The male sex drive is a man's biological drive to procreate by thrusting into a woman's vagina until ejaculation (usually co-incident with male orgasm). Before the sexual revolution a woman was seen to have a complementary (not identical) sexual role to men in terms of accepting a man's sexual advances. So a woman could be the object of a man's sexual More → The post Why sexual arousal is more elusive for women appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More