If you have a clitoris, chances are fairly decent you figured out years ago that your bathtub faucet is pretty awesome (lucky people had the detachable showerhead). The tub faucet never did anything for me, but the jet spray on the showerhead sure did 1. The force of the water was a pretty decent substitution for me for powerful vibrations. Last year while visiting someone with a bathtub with built-in jets, I was able to maneuver myself in front of a jet well enough to reach orgasm – but it was not comfortable and I think I pulled a Read More

Kissing is one of the best ways to turn a girl on – women love to kiss and it ignites their senses immediately. The same isn't true for guys – they respond better to visual stimulation, such as porn. However, with a kiss, you allow a woman's imagination to go wild, which will have her all over you in no time. Here's how to kiss a girl and make her melt. Wait Until You Know That She Wants To Be Kissed You don't want to surprise a woman with a kiss when she's not ready, because it can totally backfire and depending Read More

Kissing is something you may think is basic, but you can create amazing sexual tension just by putting your mouth on hers – the right way. If you think you've mastered kissing tips and know everything there is to know about it, think again! Here's how you can blow your lover's mind and take it to the next level. Take The Next Step In Kissing Learn how to be both gentle and firm at the same time. Many guys think that they have to be either super soft or really wild, when the best kisses come from guys who know how to Read More

If you at all frequent the world of sex toy review blogs (or even Reddit) you'd probably think that the Lelo Mona 2 is one of the three Holy Grail sex toys (the other two being the We-Vibe Tango and the Njoy Pure Wand). So you may be able to understand why I feel like the black sheep (oh wait, I am!) for not loving the Lelo Mona 2. I ask that you hear me out before you light the torches and brandish the pitchforks. I like it well enough; it's okay. But I don't long for it. In fact, Read More

Oh hey, remember 2014? It was the year I was a guest on Sex Out Loud Radio, I taught a sex blogging class, I fell in love with someone new, and I bought a house. This year I coined a new catchphrase, “that's not where my clit is,” which can be applied to any unsatisfactory experience. I shook my head in disgust at the LELO Pino, Teddy Love, and shitty G-spot articles. I hung out with my friends, bid farewell to the makers of fantastical dildos, and said hello to my new sponsors. I conducted several hugely successful giveaways, one Read More