“IT'S SO GODDAMN CUTE,” I stammered upon opening the Lovehoney Sqweel Go. I actually cooed over it, like an idiot. I don't normally care if sex toys are “cute,” but this toy reminded me of a hamster or hedgehog or something. It was actually smaller than I'd imagined, which pretty much never happens. There was another reason for my excitement as well. It appeared Lovehoney had taken my advice, FINALLY, after YEARS. I wrote about the first Sqweel in 2009: . . . to really excel as a clitoral stimulator, the Sqweel would need to shrink by 50%, have more power, and Read More

Incredible sex doesn't have to be something you once had at the beginning of your relationship. It's common for sex to become blase as you and your partner become more comfortable with each other, however, that doesn't mean you have to resign yourself to mediocre sex for the rest of your relationship. Here's how you can make sex great with these unconventional techniques. Experiment With Condoms Condoms are essential if you and your partner aren't monogamous with each other, aren't sure of each other's sexual pasts or haven't been tested for STD's. However, most couples who have been tested or are in Read More

Yesterday, I announced the winner of my Post of the Year prize in the Erotica category, and today I'm back as promised to announce the winner and runners-up in the second category: Op-Ed. Choosing a winner in this category was extremely hard because so many people are writing about posts on the same topics. I received an especially large number of nominations for posts written on the topic of rape culture and violence against women. How can you say one opinion is better than another? You can't. Ultimately, I chose the winning post because it adds something new and unique to the Read More

Sex tips aren't just for newbies – even couples who have been having sex together for years can use a handful of sex tips to keep the temperature in the bedroom from plummeting. Here are five suggestions that will keep sex with your spouse as great as it was in the beginning! Lavish Your Partner With Oral Sex When you and your lover first got together, oral sex was most likely on the menu more often than it wasn't – this is probably due in part to the fact that you most likely engaged in oral sex before you actually did the Read More

Today, I'm happy to announce the winner of the first category – Erotica – for my 2014 Post of the Year competition. This one was a lot of fun to judge, but it was difficult to choose a winner because there were so many great posts nominated! One post stuck in my head, and I just couldn't knock it free. It's not something I expected to like, considering I'm usually drawn to M/f erotica, rather than gay erotica. But this is so super hot. And so super interesting. I want to know more about this world. I want to know more Read More