Imagine the scenario: a man and a woman facing each other, naked, in a world where men and women have an identical sex drive. So, of course, they are both standing there with an erection. Just to be clear: the man has an erect penis and the woman has an erect clitoris. Would they mutually choose to engage in vaginal intercourse? No because intercourse does not stimulate More → The post What if female sexuality truly equalled male sexuality? appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Sex is associated with reproduction and with pleasure. Male orgasm is usually co-incident with ejaculation which leads to reproduction but female orgasm is not required for a woman to become pregnant. So it's at least possible that women may experience sexual pleasure (including sexual desire, sexual arousal and orgasm) differently to men. Men discover orgasm at a young age but women have no way of knowing what More → The post Understanding women's sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Only women have ever been described as ‘frigid' (meaning cold). An unenthusiastic lover is a turn-off and causes a man to feel unappreciated.[i] Men approach relationships with unrealistic expectations set by fictional media such as pornography, which depicts a fantasy world where women take the sexual initiative. If a woman is honest, many men go… More → The post The pressure on women to ‘respond' to intercourse appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Shere Hite identified two main approaches that women used to increase clitoral stimulation and their chances of orgasm during intercourse. They either maximised DIRECT clitoral stimulation by using masturbation during sex or they used positions and techniques for sexual intercourse that maximised INDIRECT clitoral stimulation caused by the penis thrusting into the vagina. “... orgasm is most likely to come when the woman takes over responsibility for More → The post How we enjoy our best orgasms appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow? Anything like this pop into your brain? A lot of women — especially women who are dating over 40 — believe that men are far more interested in getting regular sex than they are in being in a committed relationship. It's like some truth we've been telling ourselves for decades. (I've heard that nasty cow comment since I was very young. You too?) We were raised to believe that Read More