When it was suggested recently that UK schools should explain the role of the clitoris, mothers were up in arms. They objected to their daughters knowing that a girl might find it pleasurable later in her life to touch her clitoris. There was no uproar over boys' genitals. Were the boys also told that their willies might give them pleasure later on? Boys discover their sexuality 'naturally' and More → The post Enjoying sexual pleasure appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Samples based on volunteers will always attract people whose sexual (or political) motivation is well above the average for the general population. Women, who divulge their sexual histories, are either confident that orgasm is not possible with a lover or they are pleased to display their sexual prowess by claiming experiences that are considered ‘normal'.… More → The post Women only need to be amenable to intercourse appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Some people assert confidently that women orgasm easily during sex. Yet, when I ask for details, the responses are frustratingly vague and defensive. Many people assume that all women ‘naturally' orgasm during sex. I have been advised to read a sex manual as if only extreme ignorance can explain a lack of orgasm. Alternatively, with a sympathetic expression I am asked about my feelings for my partner More → The post Explanations for women's sexual arousal appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Judy married in the late 1950s; well before the average woman was informed about what a sexual relationship might involve. Judy's aspirations were to provide a comfortable home for her family and to enjoy being a wife and a mother. When I talked to her, Judy was in her mid-sixties with grown up children and a relationship of over 40 years. It was always doubtful whether she would understand More → The post A sexual relationship appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Women do not seek out relationships with men purely to enjoy orgasm. This is just as well because women's sexual arousal tends to be elusive, especially with a partner. What a woman does with this knowledge is up to her. “Most women who masturbate experience orgasm. More have orgasm with masturbation than in sex with… More → The post Enjoying sex play appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More