We have appallingly bad sex information today because those who are reassured by mysticism far outnumber those swayed by facts or logic.[i] You would think it was a crime to question the many contradictions in the modern portrayal of women's sexuality. Anyone old enough to have sex thinks they already know it all. But we… More → The post Women Deserve an Unbiased Account of Their Sexuality appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

When you've witnessed or been through a lot of stuff as a child, a chunk of adulthood is spent trying to work out what's normal because it quickly becomes apparent that what was ‘normal' to you isn't how things are in general or what you want to continue with, especially as you'll be feeling the pain of putting your pattern on repeat. Normalising what may be really poor behaviour and dynamics only really equips you for abusive and dysfunctional relationships. It trains you to be a pleaser devoted to trying to influence people's feelings and behaviour while also trying to minimise Read More

In pursuit of knowledge and understanding of sexual arousal, I went to a large newsagent in London's Oxford Street to review the covers of fifty or more pornographic magazines lined up on the top shelf. Over 90% were directed towards heterosexual men. Most of the remainder was male homosexual pornography. The few pornographic magazines for women were for lesbians. Although pornography is labelled ‘adult' as if this is More → The post Men's sexual fantasies appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

What I am about to explain to you is very important. So PLEASE pay close attention. It's something that you should NEVER, EVER do to a woman. A guy at the gym did this to me this morning and I wanted to run away from him every time he did it. I have to take a second to collect myself before telling you about this because just picturing it, actually makes me cringe. I was in spin class getting my spin on as per usual and this guy took a seat on the bike next to mine. The guy was cute, very fit Read More

She Blew You Off!!!! What a Biatch right? Well not necessarily. Read on… Has that ever happened to you?? You go on a few dates with a woman. You may kiss her, hold hands, touch… All the good stuff. And she seems responsive. She's into it as well and seems to be enjoying herself and then suddenly…. She just stops responding back. She blows off your texts, your calls and your efforts to plan the next date so you can see one another again. Annoying right? Actually, not even annoying. Down right frustrating and to be honest rude. I want to tell you something that I want you to really pay Read More