I have some news that will both surprise and delight you. Want to know where all the quality single men are? They are everywhere! There are about 45 million single men over the age of 35 in the United States. About 8 million are over 65. There are about 7 million single men in Britain and 2 million in Australia. And those are just the ones using online dating! And before you say “Yeah, but all the quality guys are taken or gay,” here are some facts ma'am: I recently “shopped” for men on match.com (which is where I met Read More

Breakups, even expected and mutual ones, often feel like a kick a teeth, but a breakup feels like a mugging when it comes to light that our ex has been in effect, poisoning the waters by saying things about us that are not true or are certainly exaggerated. Why would somebody who we shared a relationship with and who we believe that we were loving to, choose to spread misinformation designed to discredit us? There's a common misconception that breakups only happen to ‘bad' people or where something terrible happened, which is akin to suggesting that breakups are an emergency measure Read More

I have a quickie for you to help get your week started on the right note A friend of mine sent me this clip and I cried after watching it… It's amazing the limitations we put on ourselves when it comes to the difficulties in getting what we want. Maybe you've told yourself, “Oh I can't pick up women in clubs”… Or even, “I can't approach women in public”… Or maybe you've gone as far as, “I can't get women interested in me.” Whatever it is…I want you to watch this clip and remember that the only thing stopping you from getting who and what Read More

I got this amazing email from a guy this morning… He talks about what really clicked with him from hearing my advice and where he missed the mark before. You see a lot of guys are told that they need to “do THIS technique” or “treat her THAT way”… But the more you start practicing becoming someone ELSE, the less women are gonna feel attracted to YOU. If you've been struggling to get the confidence you need to draw women in towards you, then this story is definitely gonna help Here's his email: “I don't always go out and practice everything every day. However… I've Read More

The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don't-know mind” is where wisdom lives. ~ Byron Katie At this age many of us walk around with the “I know” mind. “Yeah, yeah, I know that. Been there done that. I've had loads of experience, several relationships and maybe even a marriage or two. I've done a lot and seen a lot and men are (fill in the blank). They want (fill in the blank). They never (fill in the blank). They always (fill in the blank).” But, as Byron Katie so brilliantly states in the above Read More