Yesterday, I went grocery shopping for a few items, about two hours because Cash had to leave for class. With him starting school and a new job over the past few weeks, we haven't been connecting as much as we'd like, so I had planned to make us dinner so we could eat together before he had to leave. When I left for grocery shopping, Cash was playing video games. I have to admit, it ticked me off a little. There was a sink full of dishes from the day before, a floor begging to be swept, laundry that needed to Read More

It's Monday again. Already! Where did the weekend go? We spent it visiting family – how about you? But just because we were busy this past week doesn't mean I didn't make a little time for sex blog reading. Here are some of my favorites: The Seamstress from Easily Aroused – Holy cannoli. Only two words can describe this post: sexual tension. I love that naughty, sexually-driven point in a relationship when you don't know what to expect, when sex is not a guarantee. This post is HOT. What He's Thinking from Exploring Surrender – I hope I'm lucky enough that my Read More

There are some failtastic sex toys that I keep around simply so I can lug them out in the future and confirm my previous findings. But in the case of the disastrous Split Dildo, I gave it away long ago and never looked back. Until, apparently, the Fun Toys G-Vibe. Different company, same exact shape. I had to laugh when I read the “about us” page on Fun Toys' website, which is the typical origin story of any ~revolutionary~ (not at all) sex toy. It follows the usual formula: Twee intro about huck-a-huck life, slathered with no understanding or knowledge of the sex Read More

It took 6 years for me to be accused of being bought off. Also, I'm officially notorious. Perhaps I should change my handle to Notorious L.I.L? SheVibe is All That Some people, even other bloggers, have questioned my love for SheVibe. As one of the biggest mouths in the Toxic Toy “hysteria” scene, I've had a few question it because they carry stuff that's porous. They don't carry anything that isn't labeled by the manufacturer as “phthalates-free” so in that regard they ARE a non-toxic shop. As you all know I don't love porous toys and won't recommend them for Read More

Oral sex is probably one of the easiest – and best – ways to make a woman orgasm. If you're not skilled at cunnilingus and there's another guy who is – even if you're better looking – the other guy will win out again and again. So shape up your game with these seven oral sex tips – they are hotter than hot! Slow Pressure Make your tongue as broad and as flat as you can. Put pressure on her clitoris and lick slowly – like, very SLOWLY. Mostly what you're focusing on here is the pressure and very little movement. Let Read More