I hope I have debunked the fantasy that a man can fly into any foreign country and easily find his dream girl within a short amount of time. The reality is that meeting foreign women can be just as laborious as meeting women in your own country, and that's not including the monetary cost of travel. The rewards are far greater, of course, but traveling to an unknown land to develop a sexual and emotional connection with a woman who shares a completely different culture than you is no easy task, and should not be viewed as such.
It doesn't help Read More
Ayn Rand once wrote, “Show me the woman [a man] sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself.” If this applies to American men in general, our nation is rocketing towards Gomorrah like a fat kid on a water slide. No less than an authority than the New York Times has declared that booty is in, with pop singers and movie stars like Iggy Azalea and Beyonce showing off their asses and music videos for songs like “Booty” providing a butt buffet for America's simpletons.
This is not a good thing.
I don't mean to trample on anyone's preferences, Read More
On Wednesday, the chief prosecutor of England and Wales, Alison Saunders, released Orwellian-sounding “toolkits” to prosecutors in rape cases. Rather than distributing a pair of pliers for pulling out the teeth of the accused, these kits contain instructions to prosecutors trying to disprove consent. Saunders, properly titled Director of Public Prosecutions (“DPP”), announced the policy like a brass-necked Stalinist:
Consent to sexual activity is not a grey area—in law it is clearly defined and must be given fully and freely.
As the Ched Evans case shows, the laws governing consent to sexual intercourse in Britain are as clear as mud. How else Read More
As regular readers will know, I'm very recently not-single. I began dating the Rugby Boy in October, and made things official when I returned from Australia at the start of last month. The last few weeks have already been rather comic in a number of ways, but I still wasn't prepared for the hilarity of taking the Rugby Boy back home for the first time.
When I decided to go out with the Rugby Boy, I was worried that I would no longer have any funny dating stories to tell. Turns out that's not so much the case. Read More
January and February are the biggest months in the year for online dating sites, which means they all want to prove to us just how great they are. As a result, it's the season of infographics (something you'll have noticed from a number of my recent posts).
However, when I saw this recent one from Zoosk … I couldn't help but feel they've misfired with the publicity ideas.
Yes, we know that sites and apps use data from our pages and messages to learn about us … normally with a view to showing us adverts tailored to our lives. However, Read More







