Many of us were raised to demonstrate good manners—say “please” and “thank you,” do not talk with your mouth full, knock before entering (the validation of that rule is a story for another time), avoid interrupting someone while they speak—but somehow, somewhere along the way, being a passive, fault-bearing pushover was incorporated into the unwritten list of appropriate social behavior for men.
This societal defect is due to the fact that many of us younger men were also raised to get in touch with our sensitive sides (i.e. feminine sides). Gone now are the masculine influences that helped mold the exemplars Read More
Most people don't consider how architecture is important to relationships. Good architecture helps you meet and get to know people. But what few people realize is that the stores, office buildings, and houses they live in are often designed to stop this from happening.
Why would architects want to design unhappy buildings? To push an agenda. The preachers of social justice have realized architecture's significance and used it to subtly change our behavior, our values, and beliefs. They want to change how we interact, and that includes isolating people and destroying their relationships.
Changed Sex Roles
Classic column orders
Ancient languages were infused with Read More
War is an act of violence intended to compel our opponent to fulfill our will. —Carl von Clausewitz, “On War”
I have recently finished reading The Art of War by Sun Tzu. The book is more than 2000 years old and the fact that it is still read and widely appreciated today makes it all the more respectable. On Amazon, in the review comments one said “this book is recommended for all MBA students,” which made me think about its relevance in today's world and in the contemporary survival of the fittest jungle competitive business environment.
Why would I read a book Read More
The popularity and prevalence of butt sex today could be aptly described by what is correctly pointed out here:
In 2014, the chances a woman was previously fucked in her asshole by an ex-boyfriend are greater than the chances that she washed and folded his jeans and t-shirts.
With modern societies increasingly becoming unnatural today, it doesn't seem surprising that even “unnatural” sex is now considered as natural.
And in the same societies which sometimes seem to be hypocritically hung up on sex itself, I find anal to be sometimes ironically over-hyped and pedestalized to the point of a modern day obsession, Read More
Every week on 30 Dates, we welcome different members of the dating industry to write guest posts. This week relationship coach Laura Yates joins us to discuss break-ups.
Dating After a Break-Up
When it comes to break-ups, there's a lot of talk about when to feel ‘ready' to get back out dating. Dating and getting into a new relationship are two very different things though, which is why it does no harm to start dating again even if you don't feel ready for anything too full on. I'm certainly not saying that you shouldn't focus on yourself after a breakup, Read More







