Sex does not stand alone in a relationship and in long-term sexual relationships couples need to invest in quality time together. The candle-lit dinners, soft music and flowers we tend to associate with romance provide the backdrop for the companionable aspects of a relationship. Emotional intimacy comes from spending intimate time together by sharing conversation, humour and friendship over dinner, while taking a walk or as More → The post Emotional intimacy may lead to physical intimacy appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Have I ever told you about re-framing?? I'm sure you've heard of it before but I want to talk about in terms of attraction, approaching and dating because it's super important. I'll tell you a little story first and then I'll explain why re-framing is important AND how to do it! As I told you last week, I'm in Canada (Toronto) for a dating conference. While I'm here, I'm also doing a few media appearances. Something you know I LOVE doing!!! Yesterday, the day stared off with a 6am wake up call so that I could be at Global's morning show in time for my 7:45 Read More

Humans are one of the few mammals known to have intercourse even when the female is not in estrus (the fertile period in the female's reproductive cycle). Intelligent social animals learn that cooperative behaviour can be far more successful than that of any individual alone. Thus human sexuality has evolved beyond the immediate needs of reproduction to allow for the forging of emotional bonds between partners vital to More → The post Female sexuality in perspective appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Men are easily aroused because their minds frequently focus on sexual opportunities. Nudity (especially genitals) triggers the male brain to anticipate a potential opportunity for intercourse. Women's minds are not naturally aroused so they do not respond easily to physical stimulation.[i] Misconception #2: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly assumed that women are… More → The post Women Are Not Spontaneously Aroused As Men Are appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Any toxic relationship that I've been involved in, has always kept going due to me essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship. While I did spend most of my life feeling wounded by my father's absence and sporadic periods or even moments spent with him, what I mostly remembered was how I felt around him and the happy times, which of course there were some but I'd admittedly romanticised the hell out of them. I'd selectively remember spending visitations with him and how thrilled I always was to see him but I'd conveniently forget Read More